Sorry boys and girls, Just watched a program about Orangeburg County SC and the controversy about flying the confederate flag next to an ice cream shop. The owner sided with the Black community, wanting the monument + flag removed. That made the majority of the white folks to boycott the shop.
Then, of course the black community also boycotted because of the dominant representation or meaning of that flag. So, the Poor ice cream owner had no idea what to do, so they closed up shop.
Personally and comedically, with children as the number one customer. I have no idea how the White and Black parents kept themselves away from the ice cream shop, because all I ever wanted was peace and quiet and if my child wanted ice cream at the end of a hard days work, I would have bought it from the devil
himself and the hell with the flag bull crap
.
Now seriously though: After preaching all this none judgmental crap
I came up with two possible options and opportunities missed…..and by crap I mean it may smell funny, but it’s actually imho great fertilizer for possible growth.
Now, The proud Confederate groups are set in their ways, so sprinkling cow manure on that soil probably won’t work, because To them the flag stands for more than what meets the eye, for better or for worse, till death do they part. SO ! That leaves the owner of the ice cream shop and the Black community to think outside the box and work towards a Solution based philosophy that keeps the peace and the ice cream swirling.
Here comes an mslicology
statement:
“ Sometimes we need Tolerance to overcome Intolerance “ for the greater good.
Picture this, the black community is disappointed over loosing the judgment to remove the flag, understandable ! but then they decide to not miss out on a possible teachable opportunity. To lay down some Tolerance Fertilizer, by saying “ lets accept what is rather than how we want it to be “
To take the opportunity to teach by example. To actually stop the boycott and enjoy the ice cream under the confederate flag. And To make a public statement that says, even when things don’t go your way it’s best to keep going, and to leave the animosity at the courthouse.
As for the owner, they could have tried a marketing strategy by donating a portion of profits to both parties none profit organization and to a class on promoting Tolerance in the face of adversity.
and if you get a chance watch the program, very interesting
and then share your ideas for solutions.