My uncle recently joined FB and saw me posting about how the 19th would have been my parents' 50th anniversary. My dad was his baby brother. My uncle is the oldest and is the only one of 3 to still be living. My aunt passed in her early 50s and my dad passed at 61 but my uncle just made it to 80. He was missing my dad and decided to call to check on us. Mom got offended when he started talking politics and hung up (but I was still on the line with my uncle). She said it wasn't so much the politics but that he has a habit of talking down to her, dismissing what she says, and talking to her like she's stupid. He just happens to disagree, but apparently for awhile he did treat most women as if they are stupid because he's not used to being around smart ones. His wife is dumb as a stump. The only reason she even got into college (much less graduated) was because she had a rich daddy who bought her way in and bought her degree. He had to make arrangements with the dean to exempt her from certain subjects that required anything but rote memorization. So no math or science or anything involving critical thinking. She could memorize words without understanding their meaning. Comprehension is not her strong point. I suspect his $ also ensured they passed her in some of the subjects she wasn't exempted from because her vocabulary isn't very good either. I suspect she's also somewhere on the autism spectrum as well. But, she was a good housekeeper throughout their marriage up until she became disabled.
We did discuss some fond memories-- at the wedding my dad had to kneel (Catholic church wedding) and his roommate had written HE on the bottom of one show and LP on the other so it spelled HELP. He didn't know his roommate had done that mom's mother slugged him in the arm. LOL. I don't think his own mother attended the wedding. I'll have to ask.
My uncle mentioned how my parents were the first babysitters for my uncles oldest son. My dad taught him to say "da da" when looking at pictures of monkeys-- which made for a hilarious moment at the zoo (although my aunt doesn't have a sense of humor and was furious).
Anyway, phone call side tracked me and I was having another day of anal glaucoma (couldn't see my a$$ doing anything).
Ok, I cleaned the toilet again and scrubbed the toilet seat and made Mom a baked potato. My brother had made pork chops and pork ribs in the pressure cooker.
Tomorrow I will force myself to clean litterboxes. I hope it won't be too cold outside. I usually have to turn on an outside faucet to spray out the litterboxes.
Kittens are still enjoying their freedom in the front room. I wore my fuzzy penguin pants and they sat on my lap earlier.
I went and looked at the vanity lamp we're going to put in the guest bathroom. I thought it was a 2-light one but apparently we got a 3-light one. We got it on clearance for like $20 or something.
Ooh! I just discovered it will let me paste images from my clipboard
https://www.lowes.com/pd/Portfolio-3-Light-Chrome-Modern-Contemporary-Vanity-Light/1000002924
Mom picked it, but it looks better in person than in photos.
My drawing of it that I used to plug in to my bathroom sketches