Sometimes the body doesn't self abort. And sadly, they consider removing a dead fetus an abortion- that is how it is medically classified-- so they can't take drastic measures without jumping through hoops. Because of the anti-abortion laws, it is much harder to get the removal done now because the laws don't specify things clearly enough since the politicians didn't think about these things when passing the laws. It takes multiple doctors agreeing (I believe a minimum of 3) and sometimes checking with lawmakers to get permission to do it now. Women have literally died because of it. They were so gungho about preventing abortion of viable fetuses that they made it nearly impossible to abort non-viable ones or remove dead ones. So, unless they change the laws to reclassify removal of a dead fetus as something else or they modify the laws to have specific exceptions, it's going to continue to be a problem. And the longer its in there, the more damage it does and the more likely it is that she might never be able to have a baby. The procedure to clean out the uterus and cauterize it to prevent bleeding can also make it more difficult to conceive or carry to term, but it is absolutely necessary in this case.
They did get the bloodwork, but she's thrown up 10x today. Friend reported it had been 9x but while we were talking she started again. And her next appointment isn't until Tuesday. She will probably have to go to the ER to get IV fluids. I just wish I could do something for her. It can't be good for her blood pressure and organs.
If she's doing well enough on Sunday, friend is going to help me haul out the old freezer and get a new freezer in. I'm going to have to do some weed cleanup in the yard tomorrow and move some furniture in the house to clear a path to the sliding glass door. Need to haul away an old mattress, possibly trim back a tree, etc. The mattress is outside near the back door. Will have to get something that lets me hook into it and drag it away with the truck since I don't want to find out if snakes are hiding under it by trying to move it by hand. Need to get some stuff from TSC. Also need to charge the batteries on some of my yard tools. Right now its too dark to see anything in that front room where some of the tools and batteries are though.
Today was mostly a lazy day spent watching youtube and feeling a bit sick still. Not as bad as my friend's wife though. Poor thing. She's such a sweetheart and I hate to see her feeling so bad.