Yes that is called life, add it to the long list of other differences around us.
We the people make choices Based On Everything different under the sun, because ! we are creatures who inherently
COMPARE !
The key word for me, in that statement is TENSION. It’s the effect from our inherent comparing. All we really need is to accept the plethora of inherent causes or “job conditions “ and get on with it……move thoughts and words towards a negotiated repair. When we see the repair, we don’t need to focus on each and every cause.
More Acceptance of ‘what is ‘ allows less tension around ‘ what is ‘ ( quote worthy?)
If we are not negotiating we are probably dictating, or acting like a Richard
with tension in our soul.