I've gotten very little sleep because I've been having to clean up & take care of things. My brother left cheese wrappers all over the place & didn't clean up after the elderly dog the entire time I was gone. He also didn't feed her every day & he forgot to give her water so she looked absolutely horrible & was in pain from dehydration. In fairness, he said he did try feeding her but she wouldn't eat all of her food in one day (but he still forgot the water and the water in the kitchen was empty but he didn't refill it). Poor thing looked like she was on death's door. I got her to eat a little bit but she rejected the fresh can of food I offered her & didn't even finish the small portion of chicken I gave her (this was before I found out my brother hadn't been giving her water). I have to bring food & water to her bc she has so much trouble getting up now. I got her to drink 3-1/2 bowls of water. She managed to stand up & move around a bit, but she kept barking in this pained yelp-sounding bark. I haven't been able to sleep all night bc she kept barking & I had to keep checking on her. Couldn't sleep through it bc my mother kept constantly paging me every time the dog barked (even if I was already tending to the dog). I finally asked her to not page me for the next hour bc I needed some sleep. Dog started barking shortly after that & wouldn't accept anymore water. I gave her a hot dog (sans bun) & she ate it. I then covered her with a towel & got her some more food but didn't add water this time bc she had already been drinking plenty. She started eating it, but she seems weak & has trouble. After I get some sleep in I'm going to take her to the vet to see if they can do anything for the poor thing. I'm slightly miffed that my brother didn't give her water-- I was worried he wouldn't take proper care of her. I did expect him to leave messes for me to clean up so I'm not the least bit surprised about that.
Apparently while I was gone there was an incident involving his new girlfriend, her father, & the police. The girlfriend is 21 & still lives with her father but she works at the same place he does. I believe her mother is dead. She doesn't have a driver's license so she depends on her father for rides. She decided to invite my brother over to meet her father. The father is a majorly abusive control freak & didn't like her having a boyfriend. He shouted at my brother to get out of the house. My brother turned to leave when the father pulled a gun on him like he was going to shoot him in the back. He cocked the gun & my brother grabbed it & pulled it away so it couldn't be fired. The guy kept trying to take it back all the while making threats. The daughter was screaming & crying & the neighbors called the cops. When the cops arrived they made the guy let go of the guy put the gun away & issued my brother a citation for trespassing. The girlfriend wanted to leave with my brother but her father said she wasn't allowed to leave & blocked her. She asked the cops to make him get out of her way so she could leave but the father insisted she belonged to him & couldn't leave & said she was autistic & couldn't make her own decisions. Without checking any medical history or listening to the girl (who has a very mild form of Aspergers that manifests in her not liking eye contact) the cops told her she wasn't allowed to leave. They then left her as his captive when my brother left. The father took her phone away & locked her in the house & wouldn't let her leave for a few days.
My brother informed HR of the situation & called for a wellness check on her when she didn't show up at work. The cops claimed only the person who is supposed to be checked on can call in a wellness check (which I know is absolute BS). HR eventually called in for a wellness check as well & made calls & eventually the father released her & she was able to go back to work. They didn't dock her for missing any days bc they knew she had no choice & she's afraid to try to file complaints against him with the police after the way they treated her before. She feels trapped but is also afraid to leave the father bc she thinks he'll kill my brother if she does. People are trying to convince her to get herself out of that situation & other people have offered her a place to stay but she will have to get up the nerve to leave.
If the cops weren't so corrupt here I'd suggest she file a complaint about the cops not letting her leave & essentially making her a prisoner to her father.
On the upside, my best friend was extremely happy to see me & gave me a huge hug when I went to visit him. I brought him some food so he was doubly happy. He got his new range hood & wall cabinet up above the stove & it looks good. I just need to get a ladder or stepstool and do some touch-up work on the doors. That floor is extremely crooked (and so is the ceiling)
Apparently while I was gone there was an incident involving his new girlfriend, her father, & the police. The girlfriend is 21 & still lives with her father but she works at the same place he does. I believe her mother is dead. She doesn't have a driver's license so she depends on her father for rides. She decided to invite my brother over to meet her father. The father is a majorly abusive control freak & didn't like her having a boyfriend. He shouted at my brother to get out of the house. My brother turned to leave when the father pulled a gun on him like he was going to shoot him in the back. He cocked the gun & my brother grabbed it & pulled it away so it couldn't be fired. The guy kept trying to take it back all the while making threats. The daughter was screaming & crying & the neighbors called the cops. When the cops arrived they made the guy let go of the guy put the gun away & issued my brother a citation for trespassing. The girlfriend wanted to leave with my brother but her father said she wasn't allowed to leave & blocked her. She asked the cops to make him get out of her way so she could leave but the father insisted she belonged to him & couldn't leave & said she was autistic & couldn't make her own decisions. Without checking any medical history or listening to the girl (who has a very mild form of Aspergers that manifests in her not liking eye contact) the cops told her she wasn't allowed to leave. They then left her as his captive when my brother left. The father took her phone away & locked her in the house & wouldn't let her leave for a few days.
My brother informed HR of the situation & called for a wellness check on her when she didn't show up at work. The cops claimed only the person who is supposed to be checked on can call in a wellness check (which I know is absolute BS). HR eventually called in for a wellness check as well & made calls & eventually the father released her & she was able to go back to work. They didn't dock her for missing any days bc they knew she had no choice & she's afraid to try to file complaints against him with the police after the way they treated her before. She feels trapped but is also afraid to leave the father bc she thinks he'll kill my brother if she does. People are trying to convince her to get herself out of that situation & other people have offered her a place to stay but she will have to get up the nerve to leave.
If the cops weren't so corrupt here I'd suggest she file a complaint about the cops not letting her leave & essentially making her a prisoner to her father.
On the upside, my best friend was extremely happy to see me & gave me a huge hug when I went to visit him. I brought him some food so he was doubly happy. He got his new range hood & wall cabinet up above the stove & it looks good. I just need to get a ladder or stepstool and do some touch-up work on the doors. That floor is extremely crooked (and so is the ceiling)
